<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Being Queen Ngeve]]></title><description><![CDATA[Being Queen Ngeve]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 22 May 2026 17:48:47 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[I hide my skeletons]]></title><description><![CDATA[I don't feel bad that I have bipolar. I am just careful of who I get close to me. In fact, I am only close to my children. 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To...]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/100-reasons-to-stay-alive</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63f9deae20c74d3bb0697c13</guid><pubDate>Sat, 25 Feb 2023 11:50:51 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[It is time to turn the table]]></title><description><![CDATA[I have been used. I have been cheated. I have been lied to. I have been robbed of what I deserved. All this times I knew exactly what...]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/it-is-time-to-turn-the-table</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63f5e16bc1a47d5485857386</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2023 09:49:11 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[2022 in a nutshell]]></title><description><![CDATA[As the year has come to the end it is only fitting to give my sum up of what 2022 was for me and lessons I have learned during this year....]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/2022-in-a-nutshell</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63d7fbe04bf99685a7676dc4</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2023 17:21:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e32a87_c2106ac25cc34fbba10de6e736018652~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What I have learned in 2022]]></title><description><![CDATA[1. If someone chooses to leave, let them leave. You are better off without them. 2. Remember who was around when you were down to pick...]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/what-i-have-learned-in-2022</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63d7f90d82fea5d266594fee</guid><pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2023 17:09:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e32a87_d1fcd36bf10a42d08b116a853eb9d063~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The old man in the corner]]></title><description><![CDATA[He just sits there. He doesn't touch his drink. He also doesn't open the paper. He just sits there and stare at them.]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/the-old-man-in-the-corner</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63c6eeb7e97603e04af8b014</guid><pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 07:17:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e32a87_569c269c22364a669d5ba16c1ef454fd~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who do you think you are?]]></title><description><![CDATA[I'm just going to jump right in. First of all, let me make a disclaimer - I became a mother because that is what a woman does, she gives...]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/who-do-you-think-you-are</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63bd205cfce7bc654fa31815</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2023 12:51:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e32a87_d10f9016110f414891564ac96ad687b3~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_700,h_700,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Today is my birthday]]></title><description><![CDATA[My birthdays have always been ordinary days just like any other. I never planned for parties or anything special to happen on that day,...]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/today-is-my-birthday</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6063754798b642002bd8a114</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2021 19:44:55 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[I had to tell you today]]></title><description><![CDATA[I had to tell you today, how I feel about you because it was the last time you'd ever hear me say it. I have come to the realization that...]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/i-had-to-tell-you-today</link><guid isPermaLink="false">60636b9757f22f0015897c6c</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2021 18:59:56 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[I no longer have patience]]></title><description><![CDATA[I no longer have patience for certain things, not because I've become arrogant, but simply because I've reached a point in my life where...]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/i-no-longer-have-patience</link><guid isPermaLink="false">60619a30677e3f0041bb139e</guid><pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2021 18:04:58 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Smile]]></title><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/smile</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67cfe4e989a606c75ebb89a8</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2025 07:23:30 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Promise to myself]]></title><description><![CDATA[This is me I promise to take time to take special care of myself. I promise to love myself a little more each day. I promise to always...]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/promise-to-myself</link><guid isPermaLink="false">67cfe1f589a606c75ebb8790</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2025 07:10:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e32a87_1759466df79f435480171758702b88ed~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You are not the man I envisioned, not the man I deserve]]></title><description><![CDATA[There was a faint conflict between your stated intentions and the hidden reality from the beginning. 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It was on Tuesday evening that I realized that I was...]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/he-was-in-me</link><guid isPermaLink="false">652cd9cc89b1863c01f77a45</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Oct 2023 07:32:08 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[She was dying]]></title><description><![CDATA[When I walked through the entrance of the ward, my eyes searched for her, you can never miss her in a crowed because she always stood...]]></description><link>https://shangombengeve.wixsite.com/website/post/she-was-dying</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6452a3fb86251696d4c1c5df</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 May 2023 18:12:55 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Queen_Ngeve</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dear Mommy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Good Morning. I think I’d love it better if I am able to express myself through writing a birthday message. 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